Have you ever wondered why someone just hate you or tries to bring you down every time they see you it’s like they are and you wonder why they are so invested in bringing you down when they seem to have great life . I hardly believe a lot I see cause people are becoming better @ hiding their insecurities rather than face it and learn to live with it .
Most people take out their frustration on others and try to bring them down in other to make themselves feel better about their own lives.Insecurities are the one thing every body has and will always have. I don’t agree with people who decide to bring out other people insecurities in order to make themselves feel good about theirs .
I work in an office where I see people take other people frustration and use them against each other..Personally I don’t think anyone should care or believe what other people think or say about them cause no matter what they say they are not you.
Insecurities are things which you think make you who are and make you stand out as a person if other chose to take out theirs on you or any other person that their problem never let them get to you. insecurities should never make you feel ugly or not enough .So the question is why give someone the power to hurt us when they are not also complete they are insecure about something else that is why they are loud .No one is perfect always remember that ,Some people pick out your insecurities and try to use it against you but you walking away or rather the way you hand it will determine if you give the person the power to continue behaving like that or rather leave them to deal with their own insecurities .
To bullies out there who think that the way forward is by bring people down, Trust me when I say it might help in the meantime but when your all alone its comes right to you so rather than focus on other insecurities why not focus on your own problem and deal with it .
There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul. It is a fact that we all must face. However, if you realize that God is a best friend that stands beside you when others cast stones you will never be afraid, never feel worthless and never feel alone.”
― Shannon L. Alder
Every one has insecurities , I do and with time I have learnt to face it and believe that no matter what i was born to stand out ,So why bother my pretty little head about that. So people please do tell me what you have faced and how you have handled it in the world.
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